I am very happy to announce that I am beginning a journey in the field of Childbirth Education!
Here is my story:
I am a proud mother to a 5 year-old daughter. About a year before I gave birth to her, I began to hear a calling for support among women of all ages, but especially among young mothers. Ever since then I have been able to become part of a few community and family support groups that have opened my eyes to the many needs of families which are also my own.
Through my journey of motherhood and sisterhood, I have experienced many lessons that have shaped me. I believe one of the most important lessons I have learned is the importance of easy access to support, comprehensive knowledge and compassion when it comes to pregnancy, the shaping of families and the upbringing of children.
Throughout my pregnancy I had some very negative experiences with healthcare providers such as nursing staff, doctors and counselors due to various reasons. The biggest issues I had with them was their lack of respect for my Native American Traditional belief system and natural medicine preferences, their lack of belief in me that I would be able to have an unmedicated natural birth and their impersonal treatment towards me whenever I had a question in regards to anything, honestly.
I also had some negative experiences when I delivered my babygirl. The nursing staff seemed to be amused by my determination to have a natural birth and whispered behind my family and doula’s presence in regards to our Maya identity and preferences for natural methods.
When one of the nurses was informed that I would not be accepting any medications during my labor and delivery she dared to say: “Oh, they ALL say that! You will want the drugs when the time comes!”
With the help of a great support system, I was able to have a healthy unmedicated vaginal birth and I never doubted that I would be able to do so! I had a good support system by my side in this experience reassuring me that in spite of the adversities and discomforts, I had everything I needed to birth with dignity; even though some circumstances were not ideal or how I pictured my birth. It was this support system that made the difference during my labor and delivery of my daughter. This is what I would like to provide to families and allies.
As a Childbirth Educator, Doula and perhaps Midwife someday, I will provide compassionate care and comprehensive information to those who seek my services by providing a space that is free of negativity and fully embracive of beautiful possibilities. I will link families with accurate and helpful information to guide them in creating personalized birth plans and guides for caring for their newborns and toddlers.
As a mother figure to a 10 year old stepson and member of a multicultural family, I understand that families can be very diverse and how important it is to not only respect but also embrace the spiritual and cultural beliefs of others while respecting and upholding my own. It is my goal to provide communities with links and information that are relevant to family health, intergenerational communication, positive reinforcement, gentle parenting, and emotional and spiritual support to all members of the family and community.
This is why I am asking for support. By raising $1,100 I can cover some of the cost of certification fees, books and childcare that is needed for me to achieve my goal of becoming a Certified Childbirth Educator.
Achieving my goal will enable me to be a better provider and caregiver for my daughter and will allow me to be a positive source of support for my family and community.
My biggest role in life is to be a mother to my children. Someday they may choose to be parents and I would love to share and guide them through that journey. My life next to them has taught me that all stages in life are very important but the first stages are crucial to the development of a child and a family. The foundation of our lives should be empowering self-love and acceptance and peace of mind through knowledge and our actions. Time is sacred and essential, I would love give back to the community by helping to create a beautiful start to children’s lives and by being the best that I can be for my family and friends.
Thank you for your time and love. I appreciate the support beyond anything I can express.
Love and Gratitude always.
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